Subject: Los 10 errores mas comunes con mujeres

“The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women—
And What To Do About It...”

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful Gut Level Attraction for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... You Will Never Change How a Woman "Feels" When It Comes To Attraction!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea...

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind...

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately Ten Times better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and Lose Everything.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

Lo estoy traduciendo, si les interesa y me quieren dar una mano será agradecida.

LOS 10 MAS PELIGROSOS ERRORES QUE TU PROBABLEMENTE COMETES CON LAS MUJERES- Y QUE HACER PARA MEJORAR...........

AQUÍ ESTAN LAS 10 MAYORES RAZONES DE PORQUE LOS HOMBRES FRACAZAN CON LAS MUJERES- Y COMO ASEGURARTE DE EVITAR CADA UNO DE ESTOS ERRORES FATALES…..

ERROR #1: SIENDO DEMASIADO UN “BUEN CHICO”

Alguna vez te diste cuenta de que las chicas muy atractivas nunca parecen ser atraidas por los “chicos buenos”
Claro que te has dado cuenta.

Igual que yo, estoy seguro de que tienes amigas muy atractivas que pareceria que solo salen con chicos “maleducados”…. Pero por alguna razon ellas nunca estuvieron románticamente interesadas en VOS.

Que pasa aquí?
Es realmente muy simple…

Las mujeres no basan sus elecciones en cuan “bueno” es un chico. Ellas eligen al hombre que eligen porque sienten una profunda atracción por ellos.

Y adivina que?

Siendo “bueno” no hace que una mujer sienta esa “profunda atracción”
Y ser bueno no hace que una mujer te elija

Me doy cuenta de que esto no tiene un gran sentido logico, y es difícil de aceptar….. pero acostumbrate a ello.

Hasta que no aceptes este hecho y no actues de acuerdo a esto nunca vas a tener el suceso que deseas con las mujeres.

ta bueno... aunque me parece que las justificaciones de los porqué no son del todo acertadas... yo te ayudo con la 9 y la 10.

yo te ayudo con lo que puedo

Bueno acá va la 2 y disculpen mi torpe trabajo pero bueno, es lo que hay

ERROR #2 TRATANDO DE "CONVENCERLA PARA QUE GUSTE TUYO"

Que hacen la mayoria de los hombres cuando conocen a una mujer que REALMENTE les gusta.... pero ella no esta interesada?

Cierto! Ellos tratan de "convencerla" para que sienta diferente.

Bueno, te tengo noticias..... vos nunca podras cambiar lo que una mujer siente cuando se trata de atracción.

Nunca, jamás, JAMÁS.

No puedes CONVENCER a una mujer para que sienta diferente con tu "lógica y razonamiento".

Piensalo.

Si una mujer no "siente eso" por vos, como en el mundo esperas el cambio de ese SENTIMIENTO siendo "razonable" con ella?

Pero todos lo hacemos.

Cuando una mujer no esta interesada, nostros suplicamos, declaramos, perseguimos, y hacemos todo lo que podemos para cambiar su pensamiento.

Mala idea. Una que nunca trabajaremos.

Es un huevo traducir esto, hay palabras que nunca vi en mi vida, debe de ser ingles yankee, bueno, aca va la siguiente y por hoy dejo porque cuesta mucho jaj

ERROR #3: BUSCANDO SU PERMISO O APROBACIÓN

En nuestros deseos de complacer a una mujer (los cuales nosotros erroneamente pensamos que lo harian igual que nosotros), nosotros, los hombres estamos siempre haciendo cosas para conseguir "permiso" o "aprobación" de las mujeres.

Otra HORRIBLE idea.

Las mujeres nunca se sienten atraidas por el tipo de hombre que depende de ellas..... JAMÁS.

No me malinterpreten aquí.

No tenes que tratarlas MAL para que gusten de vos.

Pero si pensas que tratar bien a una mujer significa que "siempre vas a tener su aprobación y permiso para hacer cosas" pensa devuelta.

Nunca tendrás éxito buscando su aprobación.
En realidad a las mujeres les molestan los hombres que buscan su aprobación.

Dudas de mi? Preguntale a cualquier mujer atractiva si los "Wussy guies" (no tengo ni la mas reputa idea de que quiere decir esa palabra de mierda, debe ser algun invento yankee, que significa alguna clase de gente como cheto o plancha, por ejemplo seria: "los chicos chetos", esa es mi idea) que los persiguen y buscan su aprobacion, las molestan.
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wussy es tipo marica, flojo, mariposon

muy buenos los errores y cuanta verdad hay en ellos!

Acá van el error 9 y el 10:

ERROR #9: No saber EXACTAMENTE qué hacer en cada tipo de situación con las mujeres.

Ahora voy a volarles la cabeza…

Una mujer SIEMPRE sabe lo que estás pensando.

Las mujeres son aproximadamente diez veces mejores que los hombres leyendo el lenguage corporal. Eso es 10 VECES!!!.

Lo sé, puede ser que sea difícil de creer. Pero por ejemplo, si una noche saliste con una mujer, y pensas besarla, ella lo sabe. ¡Y si tú no sabés exactamente qué hacer y exactamente CÓMO besarla, y solo te sentás allí mirándola y poniéndote nervioso, ella no te va a ayudar!

Y esto vale para TODOS los aspectos de la relación con las mujeres y de invitarlas a salir…

Iniciar la conversación, conseguir su número, invitarla a salir, besarla, empezar a tocarla… todo. Si no sabes qué hacer en cada situación, tú la atornillas probablemente para arriba… y pierdes todo.

Y si no sabés exactamente qué hacer ante cada tipo de situación, probablemente acabes arruinándolo todo.

Y lo sabés: es de VITAL importancia que sepas exactamente cómo ir de un paso al siguiente con una mujer… desde la primera cita hasta que la lleves a la cama.

ERROR #10: No buscar AYUDA

Éste es el más grande de todos los errores.

Este es el error que impidirá de por vida que el hombre esté con la mujer con la que querría estar.

Lo sé, a los hombres no les gusta parecer débiles o desamparados. No nos gusta pedir ayuda.

Hey, yo mismo estuve en esa situación. Dejame decirte un poco sobre mí y cómo logré tener éxito con las mujeres… Hace aproximadamente cinco años me convencí del hecho de que no sabía iniciar una conversación ni conseguir citas con las mujeres que me atraían. Me Frustré totalmente.

Una noche había salido con un amigo, y vi a una chica a la que quería invitar a salir, pero los nervios eran tan grandes que no podía hacerlo. Todavía puedo recordar esa noche… justo en ese momento fue que tomé la decisión de hacer lo que fuese para aprender a tener éxito con las mujeres e invitarlas a salir.
Bien, después de mucho trabajo y de intentar todas clases de locuras, finalmente entendí cómo era la cosa.

Ahora puedo acercarme a prácticamente cualquier mujer y conseguir su número casi inmediatamente. He salido con modelos, he salido con actrices, y he salido con muchachas agradables, normales, regulares también. Ha sido una experiencia muy gratificante. Ya siento más esa sensación enferma de inseguridad… como cuando no sabía cómo conocer a una chica y que terminaría solo.

Sé que en caulquier momento, dondequiera, puedo salir y conocer mujeres atractivas. He escrito un libro en el asunto, y he dado seminarios en ambas costas de los Estados Unidos… y he enseñado esto a decenas de miles de hombres alrededor del mundo.

Para mi la cuestión es sencilla:

Procreación y Misterio son los 2 motores de cualquier relación con una mina. Según la circunstancia particular podrían entrar otros factores (seguridad, admiración, etc) pero estos 2 están siempre presentes.

MISTERIO = la gente se mueve para descubrir cosas. Todo lo que hacemos es porque queremos averiguar algo de la otra persona (cómo será desnuda, qué pensará, porqué será así, etc, etc). Cuando ya sabemos todo, la cosa no funciona más... SIEMPRE hay que ocultar algo y procurar que la mina note de que lo estamos haciendo (ojo! no sobre cualquier cosa... algo que parezca trivial pero que deje la duda).

PROCREACIÓN = somos animales, y como animales que somos buscamos a lo que consideramos el mejor ejemplar para garantizar la permanencia de nuestros genes. No importa que hoy en día la ciencia ya garantice esta permanencia, o que la procreación se haya escindido del placer: se trata de cómo está programada nuestra mente y tomará cientos o miles de años "cancelar" esas órdenes primitivas. Si las actitudes e imagen de la persona no garantizan a la mujer un mínimo de seguridad a este respecto, es altamente probable que todo fracase.
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fantastico, jajaja, me imagino vos en una cita con una mina, re trabajandole la cabeza, viendole sus debilidades y aprovenchadote de ellas para hacerla caer en la trampa jajaja, quiero ser psicologo :P

No, estos conocimientos no me sirven de un joraca... soy propenso a los errores como cualquiera... dicen que la psicología sirve para aplicarla en los demás pero no en uno mismo.

uuuhhhh, bue, entonces cuando tenga una cita yo, vas y nos ves de lejos, y nos juntamos despues por ahi y me contas q debo hacer :P jajaja

JUAAAAAAAAAAAA

para entender a las mujeres no hay enciclopedia que sirva...
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es verdad, la enciclopedia puede servir para darselas en la nuca cuando hacen algo intendendible :P

de hecho, para eso sirven...pero seguiremos sin entenderlas...eso será así por los siglos de los siglos...el que me diga que entiende a las mujeres tiene 2 posibilidades: o no las entiende (aunque crea que si) o se come la bala...:-P